I had a little discussion with a relative about wives gaining weight after delivery and having a hard time losing it. This whole discussion started when this relative was surprised to see me not losing so much of my maternal weight ever since I gave birth almost a year ago now.
Yes, it's almost been a year since I gave birth but for the life of me, I'm still not reduced to my desired weight, shape and form.
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Anyway, going back to the discussion on gaining weight, she and her sister told me that I did not lose weight because my husband did not fool around and that I can easily get thinner if he turns unfaithful. They said they were telling from experience.
Now, would you rather have a faithful husband and not lose weight? On the contrary, why would any husband stay unfaithful when he has a sexier wife now?
So silly. But then relatives are relatives. Maybe they were just telling me that to make me feel better about my weight because I've been compensated to have a faithful husband by my side. Is that really how it works now? LOL